The husband asked if it was wrong to expect his wife to take care of their newborns 16 hours a day shared online criticism.
The Reddit Post of 30-year-old man, aka user Blicaj_protection987, epidemiologist, explained that he has been explained on the distance from 3am to 12 hours
He also cares about his two-month baby during working hours before he handed over his wife’s full responsibility for the rest of the day.
‘You still complain’
Although the original poster (OP) insists that the schedule is quite quotes that he also handles the household and their two dogs – his and 30-year-old wife disagrees, claiming that she grows an unfair burden.
“He sleeps with full leg every night and he doesn’t have to do,” he told Redditers.
“This is a much better situation than literally every mom’s stay at home, but she still complains,” he wrote.
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The post quickly gained tow, and Reddit users were divided over the compulsion compartment.
“Stop leading the result in your marriage,” he criticized one person, while others sympathized with his frustration, but warned that the couple arrangement would not last until the child grows.
‘Parenting is a 24-hour job’
Many mentioned that raising a child’s current commitment, not a fixed schedule, like the user who wrote: “Umm, are both his parents. No division.
“Unbearable God, one of you, what falls, then what?! Now you’re a parent, it’s a 24-hour gig, deal with them.”
The individual pointed out the younger challenges such as the child grows, especially after he reaches the stage of the little one.
“Do you have a baby. Even with two parents in a house that helps, expecting a little more than an hour or two a day in the free time,” An individual continued.
“You can now take care of the baby and work, but be prepared to be flexible with that arrangement.
“I can insure you from the personal experience they work as they take care of Malina will not finish well. They like to scream. If they are quiet, then they do something dangerous or destructive.”
Some users were examining and whether the OP really dealt with parenthood during work, suggesting that his argument “Baby watching” while working is not the same as actively caring for him.
Balancing parenting and domestic responsibility
The situation underline a joint issue in relations – how to quite share parenting and homework.
The two parents from Ohio went a virus on the ticktok after divided their exemplary handling of a tricky disciplinary call until they laughed at their bad child. Mom said Newsweek About the principles behind their parenting model.
Meanwhile, others Newsweek The article points out a strain that uneven household responsibilities can accommodate a relationship, stating the women’s shock when her father made a last minute, and a change of life without consulting her.
Although circumstances were different, a fundamental number that expects one person to deal with a load without a complete agreement-chimes with the Dilemama of the OP.
Justice or partnership?
Many Reddit users pointed out that the OP view is overlooking parenthood as something that can be divided evenly into shifts – may not be sustainable. Parenting, they claimed, talks about teamwork, not a rigid separation of time in a way that feels “fair” on paper.
The relationship experts suggest that successful redundancy often involves fluidity, not storage of strict trails while the OP is accused of some critics.
NewsweekRelationship analysis notes that partners should focus on supporting each other, not discussing who works more.
Small efforts, such as showing appreciation and active participation in responsibilities outside the assigned roles, can help mitigate tension.
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2025-02-09 10:45:00
